Top 10 tips on how to prepare for the first night together

You’ve been dating for a while now, and it’s time to move on from verbal romance to bodily romance and And here he invites you to stay the night tomorrow. But how to prepare for such an important event? It is extremely important to do everything to make the first sex leave behind fond memories.

A sleepover with a guy, especially for the first time, can be a difficult experience. You’re probably excited, but at the same time there are a million thoughts running through your head. It’s only natural, because you never know what’s going to happen. But it’s best to stay relaxed, and whatever needs to happen will happen. You will enjoy the fellowship, each other, and share that best moment together. Remember, the most important thing is to have fun and make the relationship work. Follow these tips to make your first time with him unforgettable!

1. Set the mood

There are different ways to set the mood and relax before getting into the sexy part of the date. You can light some scented candles, put on some romantic music, and even have a glass of wine or beer (or whatever beverage you both like) to make the setting perfect. But try not to overdo it – sometimes just wearing your favorite and most beautiful underwear is enough to set the mood.

2. Take a sedative pill

Women often worry about what their partner thinks of them: too fat, too flat, or just not as sexy. In fact, your little insecurities about your body may not bother your significant other at all. Worrying about how you look only creates problems for yourself. Try not to dwell on it.

3. Make yourself presentable

Getting groomed is something you should never turn a blind eye to. Don’t forget things like waxing, moisturizing, spas, and going for the sexiest lingerie. And yes, don’t forget to maintain good dental hygiene as well. Coffee breath is unlikely to be a mood killer, but if you smell like garlic, it’s probably worth doing something about it. Do what you can to feel confident and set a certain mood.

4. Bring comfortable pajamas with you

When you’re spending the night with a guy for the first time, it’s easy to realize that you may be overthinking what clothes you should wear. Don’t worry: If he’s like most guys, he’ll just want you to be as comfortable as possible. Don’t think too much about what you should wear – grab your favorite pajamas or shorts and a loose T-shirt and head to his house.

5. Bring your protective gear with you

When you’re spending the night at his house, you know there’s a real possibility that it’s going to be hot in the bedroom at night. So don’t forget to bring your protective gear with you. After all, there’s no guarantee that he’ll take care of it or that they won’t run out at the most inopportune moment…

6. Plan the evening

Of course, you can have all the fun in the world just by being in the same room with your partner. However, when you have a plan of what you want to do with your partner, things will be a lot more fun. Will you be watching movies together? Are you going to go out to dinner? Or share a bottle of wine? Think about what interesting things you can do with your boyfriend before you spend the night at his house.

7. Think about the morning, too

As you’re planning your night out, take time to think about the morning after as well. Do you have somewhere to go? How long do you want to stay with him? Especially if you’re an early bird and he likes to sleep in, you need to decide what you’ll be doing all that time.

8. Talk about expectations

If you’re sleeping with your boyfriend for the first time, you’ll have thoughts swirling around in your head about what you’re going to do. Since he’s excited too, he’s probably coming up with all sorts of expectations in his head, just like you. It would be a good idea to talk to him about what you can do and what you don’t really like. It’s important to know that it’s not unusual for you to spend your first night with your boyfriend without sex. If you’re not comfortable with that, then you’re not comfortable with it. It should be simple.

9. Be prepared to not get enough sleep

Studies have shown that when you spend the night with someone for the first time, your brain is always a little awake. Because of the unfamiliar environment, your brain essentially goes into survival mode, causing you to be a little more awake than you’d like. Also, sleep hugging is not the nicest thing in the world. Your hair will suddenly become his worst enemy, you won’t know what to do with your arms, and every time you move or move, you’ll only have to worry about him waking up.

10. Be honest about everything

Is your morning breath bothering you? Tell him. Do you not want to have sex? Tell him. You haven’t shaved your legs and feel insecure? Tell him, because it’s unlikely he’ll even pay attention to such a small thing. One of the best ways to improve communication with your partner is to just be honest.